If you came with me to children’s ministry and met Tyrone, you’d probably wonder why we even let him come.
Sometimes we wonder why we let him come.
Sometimes all we see when we look at him is the scowl on his face, the anger in his eyes, the cuss words coming from his mouth. The tobacco in his pocket that he’s chewed since he was 3 years old.
Sometimes we forget that he’s only 12 years old. That he’s still a little boy, really.
But sometimes we remember.
We remember the child who stood outside the fence because he was too afraid to come in.
We remember the child who bolted out the door because it was simply too much.
We remember the young man who paced up and down the road in an effort to get his anger under control.
And we remember other things. The way his mother curses him when he comes home. The fact that his dad has been in jail “a whole lot of times”. We remember that he’s two years behind in school thanks to his parents irresponsibility.
But the saddest story, to me, is why he doesn’t go to church.
“Do you go to church on Sundays?” Sharon asked.
“You know,” he answered. “I used to but I just don’t anymore. You see, my mom’s boyfriend is so annoying and when I’d come home he’d be like ‘oh so you’re going to be a good boy now, going to church, how nice. Be a good boy’ and he’d just make fun of me and it made me so mad and I’d just cuss him out and you know, I just couldn’t handle that. It just ain’t right, I can’t cuss straight outa church so I just quit going.”
“Why don’t y’all have kids church every night? he asked.
And I remember the sad, afraid little boy beneath the angry young man and I want to cry.
What will happen to Tyrone?
Where will he be in 20 years from now?
I don’t know.
I can only hope and pray that God will reach down and touch his life.
I pray that his anger could be channeled into an anger against sin.
That his energy could be channeled into building the kingdom of God.
That his leadership skills could be channeled into leading the church.
This child is a child of potential
For good. Or for evil.
Pray that he would choose the good.
Pray that God could be the father he so much wants in his life.